So we're back to telephone tag and our "business" relationship.

I returned his call last night before I went to bed and got his vm. I was glad. I left a short message and turned my cell phone off.
About 1/2 hour later he called the house line; I did not answer.
This morning I checked my cell and sure enough he'd left a message last night with the acct. updates, and he asked me to give him a call sometime today as he needs to write a couple of checks from our shared acct. to pay bills.

Like I said, now we're stepping back to communication re: our finances, and that seems to be all. I'm still going to TRY to pretend like the other night did not happen, but it will be difficult.
Got to get to work. Thanks for all of the wonderful support.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.