Hubby and I do have good conversations where we both explain our feelings in depth, the problems arise when one of us gets resentful and stops talking altogether. Then we have a fight and it can go on for days. We are really trying to work on breaking this pattern as we realise how destructive it is. Before kids we rarely fought, especially over such emotional issues, so we tend to go round in circles now, not knowing how to resolve anything. Okay, the little voice in my head is telling me that I should tell you that we both are stubborn as mules which doesn't help things! Yep, ego has to go I know. Hope you all had a good weekend.
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
