Sparkless.

I could have wrote your first post for you. Matter of fact I think I did about 6 months ago.

If you read my first thread you will see I was exactly where you are. Big ole bag of sexual resentment weighing me down. Listen to what Gel and HP and the rest tell you about how this is not just about sex but so much more. It took me a while but I finally got it. And things are much better in the bedroom then they were 6 months ago.

My first thread
Thread for Chrissy.
(Forgot how to link these things).
Might help you see you are not alone in the way you are feeling.