Get a copy of the book "The Sexy Years" by Suzanne Somers. Believe it or not, there is a wealth of excellent information in it, despite the fact that she played a ditzy blonde on a situation comedy in the 70's. It's geared to menopausal women, but would also be of help to younger women with diagnosed hormonal imbalances. You don't say how old you are, but I'm assuming mid-to-late 30's and more than one child, from what you've posted. Also, sounds to me like one of the prime things for you and your H to work on is communication, but i'm sure you already knew that...