Thanks Jack...I am going out this morning to buy DR, but how do you get passed all the mixed signals that she throws at me. She started sleeping with her pj's on the other week...last night she wears them to bed again and in the middle of the night, takes them off and snuggles up close to me and wants to 'spoon'. My mind was a huge ball of spaghetti for the rest of the night. I barely slept! Is it a game, is it her missing the closeness? Then she wakes up in the morning, and I tell her "that was nice lying like that" and she responds by saying..."Don't read anything into it"?
What gives? I'm so confused! It makes me believe that she is confused too?!?!
How do you pull back from that when I crave the closeness and she does that?


“Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent.” "It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop." Confucius (551-479 BC) - Chinese philosopher