Thanks, RB. I know you are right. I have basically let him come and go as he pleases and have set absolutely no boundaries whatsoever. I have SAID some boundaries here and there, but since I never actually enforce them I suppose they are null and void. I know I need to detach and start worrying about my daughter and myself, not him. It makes it easier when our contact is limited, as it is now, but I hate that he is the one initiating it. He seems to control the situation at all times, but what I really want to do is find a way to turn the tables. I know eventually an opportunity will present itself and he will start contacting me. I just hope I am ready to be strong when that comes. Thanks again for your advice, I will try very hard to follow it, as I know you are 100% right.
