Quote: No that we didn't play a role in the deterioration of our Ms, in my case it was probably 50/50. But why are we willing to do anything to make it work, yet they are not willing to do anything at all.
I wish I knew the answer to this one also. I have tried and tried to get him to see that there is a chance for us, but he insits on a D and there is nothing that I can say or do that will change his mind. It's really sad for me that I are still committed to him and our marriage and he hasn't been committed to it for (he says) 5 years. Funny he never let me in on that one.