The snow is having the same effect on me. I love snow and I would love nothing more than to be snowed in with my H. Unfortunately he wants nothing to do with me.
We have so many similarities in our sitchs. Until a couple weeks ago my H and I continued to ML. I'm hoping we'll go back to that soon but I think the reason it stopped is not because my H doesn't want to but because he read up on D laws which say he can't file if we have sex even once.
My H too has been severely impacted by the death of a parent. Our M has not been the same since his dad died a year and a half ago.
Do you feel like you didn't appreciate your H before this? I mean, my H was not perfect but for some reason I tended to focus more on the negative than on his many many positive traits.
I have often agonized over this very same thing. So many times I took my H for granted and regret all of the awful things I said to him. Sometimes I think as much as what I'm going through sucks, it has helped me to appreciate what I had, and to go through a sort of change as a person.
