Flutter- My sitch is a little different in that my H continues to deny that there is an ow. My story is long and complicated, as i have been separated now for 14 months. But, basically, almost every time my H and I see each other, we are intimate. Sometimes i initiate, sometimes he does. There are times when i feel like i should stop doing it, as it only confuses me. But, i think it confuses him too, which is good. He has told me that he has no will power when it comes to me.
When I had a DB phone consultation, I was told that it is not too common for the WAS to express such attraction openly for the spouse they left.
So, wait, let me make sure i understand this...we are the exception in that our H's WANT to be intimate with us? I just want to make sure i understand this.
I wish i had some good advice to give you. We are in a tough situation, and i certainly wish i could make up my mind about the whole thing. Its very confusing and is the hardest thing i have ever been through. I hope that you are finding some comfort here. Please post again. Take care.
