Lost, Thank you very much for the hug! And the advice. Actually, I had a phone consultation with Chuck, and I felt it was very helpful, but he recommended that I continue having sex with my H once in a while, but that rather than getting all deep and trying to talk to him about "us" afterwards (which I tend to do, not in a major way, but enough to push him farther away I am sure!!) - sort of doing a 180 in my behavior surrounding any sex we may have, also that I should turn him down once in a while. But I don't know. It is too confusing to even try to figure it out. But thank you so much again for your input!! I did read one of your posts on your situation, and I wish I had some wisdom to offer. For some reason, I used to be the one who my friends got advice from, but lately I feel too clueless to help anyone at all. However, here is a hug right back - And I do hope everything begins to get easier for you!!!
