Wow Tim...I don't know what to say other than I am happy for you and your sitch. Once you became resigned to the fact that this was over, stopped the pursuit and detached she reallly began to see her world crumble. I think that is the key in all this....too many of us try and try...we pay lip service to the DB principles, or at least half-heartedly employ them, but yet we still approach the sitch with too much emotion. I think you turned the corner, it was recognized by your W and I think that was the key. I am truly happy for you. Start with a beginner's mind my friend, take each day as it comes and rekindle your R. Leave the tension and tentativeness behind because it will only make things worse. Above all else, keep up the good work! Keep us posted!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
