Okay, Tim, I may not be the best at giving advice here (or at least following my own), but in my opinion, it sounds like your contemplating doing that as a sort of manipulative move...at the very least, that's how she will interepret it. If you truly feel that you should take it off, then so be it....but please consider your motive in doing so before making the decision.
Its a fine line that we LBS' walk between doing things for ourselves and things that the WAS will see as manipulative.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
