SS today is a beautiful day! I am doing better today and the last few days. I really have let go of my W and realized she has to do what she wants right now. I have told her my feelings and she has to figure out what she wants. when I do things right now I am thinking of myself first, and not my W which is really helping. What have I been doing for fun.....I have gotten back to the gym again, and working out with some renewed intesity. I tried to go to a movie on the weekend by myself which at the time felt weird, but looking back it was a sign of my independence. I am starting to enjoy work more, and have some intesity during the day. I hve reached out to some friends that I have pushed away so we are tryig to get out and do things together.
As for my goals. I am trying to keep it simple. 1. Like PaRob I have stopped snooping. 2. I am thinking i myself in regards to my actions. If it makes me happy to do something I do it! 3. In regards to the R I ave decided to support my W the best way I can in regards to her school. I ant to see her succeed and getting stronger regardless of us. 4. I am willing to put up with the current living arrangements until the end of this semester and re-evaluate things in May. 5. I am going to focus in on my personal goals of losing some more weight and hit the weights harder...who knows I may need to look good for the singles seen!
Tim
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