Hi Tim, you are right it is a process and it takes time, I guess some of us that are further along can see the signs of backsliding quicker than others so we jump in with warning signs.
You do sound like you are getting a better handle on it again though so that is great but time it all takes time and patience as if we haven't had alot of that but it takes more alot more unfortunately.
There is a whole new life out there be it with or without your wife so make the preparations now and look forward to it when the time is right.....Kim
