Thanx Emily. I am not sure if she has hit rock bottom but may do that soon. The OM is an alcoholic, gambler, and former drug abuser. Supposedly he has given up all that only in the New Year so who knows. We tried to recouncil in Nov and Dec but she ended up going back to the OM in the New Year! Anyways I have thought I personally hit rock bottom a couple times, and have recovered. I will just have to have more patience, and go own with my life. My kids need a strong father and I need to get back on solid ground again personally. Still a little shacky but getting better!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
