Hit the Wall....Am I on the otherside?

[Tim297181]

Absolutely Kim! I post on here to get comments from people, and I appreciate your honesty and input!
I realized my steps back this morning after I got to work.
You are right I do the DB and begin to detatch and it brings my W a little closer, and then she pushes my buttons and it is back to the rollercoaster ride!

I am not sure if my W does it on purpose, and I am not trying to use it as an excuse, but she does say things that just get me back on the rollercoaster. Saying I miss you, that we should talk, and how our conversations lately have been so open and warming to her.

That is my mistake is I buy into the words she is saying and forget to look at her actions. I try to read between the lines and WANT to think she is reaching out to me, and MAYBE asking me to pull her back!

I have to realize she will come back on her time not mine, and when I don't push and detatch I feel better and she comes closer!