Hit the Wall....Am I on the otherside?

[Tim297181]

Not much happened on my home front tonite!
After I thought there was some crack in my W's armour this morning it did not accumulate to anything more tonite!
After a good nite with the kids, my w asked m before bed who was sleeping dwonstairs!
I jokingly said flip a coin! Nothing much said for awhile then the queston came again. I told her that i thought we were going to talk tonite after the "moment" we shared this morning. I told her I am confused on how to react to her or act around her at times! I came home from Vegas home sick and wanting to kiss and hug her and say ILY, but felt I could not! And that hurts! She said she hurts to. I told her I want her to be able to sleep beside me, and I still want our marriage to work! she did not say muh except she hates sleeping downstairs and wants to e closer to the kids upstairs. In the end she grabbed her stuff and went downstairs to sleep. I did tell her as she went down that I miss her beside me and would like to work things out, and her response was she has made decisions that she has to deal with.
In the end pretty much what I expected. She did not want to talk and she had tears in her eyes as she went down. I did not chase and I made my position clear on our R. It is up to her to decide what she wants to do, and I will continue on with life!
At least the cat and dog still want to sleep with me!