I am in agreement with Gel and HP here. You are not being fair to HP. She isn't getting her needs met. These are simple needs that can be met with a modicum of effort. Just as your W could "feed you, admire you, and sex you" more often and with better humor. HP's H could follow do some very simple things and they could both benefit. Think back over HP's posts about how she let's her H knows the things about him she loves, how she homeschools the kids and stays home (partly because he prefers it that way), think about how she has mentioned cooking things he likes and having faith conversations because he likes them. C'mon Cobra - sour grapes here.
