So, Cobra, if I have needs within my marriage--and I express them--I am being a princess.
If you have needs in your marriage and you express them, regardless of how you do so, you are being the strong man that you should have been years ago and I am being a princess.
Somehow I'm thinking that you've gone all the way to the other end of the spectrum here. There is "woman gets everything she wants, guy acts like a chick" and "man does nothing and woman has to accept it or she's being a spoiled princess".
Really? These are my choices?
Come on now.
It is not unreasonable for me to want my H to be romantic once in a while. For him to put some effort into his half of the sexual/romantic R.