I did tell him that last night, in those exact words.
He made some Sorry noises but it's all more of the same from him. Lots of talk but no subsequent behavioral changes.
I know he wants to be different, and again I know he's crazy about me, but he is simply not putting enough effort into being my husband and, what's more, he feels that he is incapable. Sorta puts me in a tough position.
Today I was trying to Corri-ize myself and come up with a boundary but I couldn't. "H I will not tolerate your lame efforts towards me. If you can't step up to the plate I will....I will....I will....what? What tf am I going to do?"
I don't have a lot of leverage, as I'm not going to leave, and he knows it. He capitalizes *very* heavily on this, too.
If any of my lurkers are highway patrolmen, please disregard the beautiful redhead speeding up the OK/MO roads. She's on a mission.
