I really feel you need to say this to him ("Today I feel depressed that I am not worth a little effort from him.)
This is EXACTLY the kind of thing I told my H makes me "feel" unimportant to him only, I referenced that in his unwillingness to actually initiate sex. His actually verbalizing that he KNOWS this is what you'd like....but saying "it's just not me" is what a woman would interperet as "I know you want this....but I ain't gonna do it.....no matter what!" Which translates to a woman as.....you aren't important enough for me to make that effort.
Honey.....you really need to tell him this.
Or would you just prefer I hop the stateline and come whap him upside the head for you? I'll do that ya know
