Hp,
Omg I am sorry I did not realize it was that serious.
I feel like a idiot now. Because I am sure you have metioned it before.

You indeed are a strong woman my dear to be dealing with so much. No wonder you are so stressed right now.

I am a naturally cheerful person so he's in luck, in that I am mostly happy go lucky.

Me to! Well when I am not home lol.
Your H is lucky that your attitude extends to him also.
Hope you always remain this way. And hope he finds a way to comfort you at times when you are not. It will happen.
Maybe now that he has a job he likes/wants things will get back on course for you.