Hi Honeypot... The others have already chimed in with good advice, so instead I will offer a funny distraction ( remember I am no Hairdog...where is he anyway)?

My H and I have been trying to be more expressive in bed... he was trying to find a cute, sexy way to talk about my ummm...area down there...he's awkward saying p*ssy and the like, so I began calling it my honeypot! LOLOL.

Anyway...he LOVED this. He went as far as getting some honey and well...alright I'll stop there. He is even calling me from work with some honey-delicious thoughts. I secretly giggle because he obviously doesn't know about the original HP!

And, no, Hairdog...I don't have any lesbian fantasies about HP so stop thinking that.

I am sorry HP about your dad ( boy can I relate) and your sis moving and everything. The only thing that I can add to the JCO ( just chill out advice) is to think about coming up with a plan when the inevitable stresses do hit You know that with stress H will back off and you will need extra physical attention...it's a good idea to come up with a plan before the storm to weather the storm...maybe inact a schedule when there's a lapse of LM greater than 2 weeks. You know me and schedules...personally, I think it helped save my marriage.

Extra ( womanly) huggs to you, xo IHJ