Wow, HP, sorry to hear about this. Aside from the "idyllic months", your sitch sounds much like mine, although I have to think that a lot of what's causing your problems looks situational and (relatively) short-term. All those stressors aren't going to help at all, and things probably won't get a whole lot better in the bedroom until those other situations resolve themselves to some degree. IOW, patience, as hard as that is, seems to be warranted. Trying to take my own advice as well. No specific advice here, other than keep at it, and know that since you were able to find a good groove for a while, it should be possible to get back there...
