It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
I'm so happy for you. I'm not so very smart though, I've just gone through this and had the same feelings you have, just like many folks on here. Communication is just so very important in an intimate R....keep this up, keep talking with her....you two are well on your way
Quote: While we agreed to go slowly on reviving our sex life we are in love again like newlyweds. I can't thank you enough.
This is great. My wife and I had a (somewhat less dramatic) feeling after we attended Retrouvaille. I would warn you not to get too "head in the clouds" about this breakthrough. You need to realize that this will be a long process, with setbacks, stops, and starts along the way. Don't let the inevitable setbacks deter you from the long term goal. I am a very big proponent of Retrouvaille sessions as a way to learn to communicate better. Although my W and I do not follow through on all they taught us, I would be living alone with D papers filed if we didn't go to it. You may want to look into it as it sounds like increased and loving communication is the first order of business in your sitch. Great first step and good luck to you.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
