By the way, here is that thread that I said I would find you. This guy's wife was with OM while he was DBing. They eventually reconciled. It is worth going through his old threads to read them. He is so good at DBing. You will notice that he is very patient too.
This is the guy who went on and on about a book that helped him a lot. I haven't found the name yet. I'll get it to you when I find out what it is called.
