So, even though there are no guarantees that she and I will ever work things out, are you aying that I should stick with it and not totally give up on that?
I know I am focusing on me too; but I guess I am wondering whether that part that wants to work it out should give up or if I need to be the strong one in this right now until I know for sure.
I just have been reading some posts and other things that suggest that alot do want to reconcile; but just can't get there. I would hate to walk away and find that later; but I can't let this go on forever either. I mean it gets discouraging when she wnats to go out and then backs off. Thing is will it ever stop??? lol