Thanks I will check it out. Like I said before, everyone's sitch is different; but it may provide some useful insight.

I know my Ex knows I still love her and I don't think she would keep seeing me with that knowledge; but as I said who knows. I am angry about her affair, whether it happened after or during our marriage; but I would forgive. Hey it hurts; but if she truly wants to fix things someday, it would only make us stronger.

Frank