Sam, Thanks for your input and I tend to agree that it is similar to Wes's sitch; but I don't want to placde too much on that, as every case if different; but I can only hope mine sitch does turn like Wes's seems to be going.

Defintitely would like to hear an answer on your question to Wes.

My only bad part of this whole thing is the part wherre she almost makes it like I shouldn't be doing t his; but is that because she doesn't care for me or because she is carrying guilt??? I mean, yes, people do use people; but I don't think that is the case. I think this is a case of guilt and fear and the fact that how do you go back on what you did...the divorce. What makes it okay to go back to a relationship that you divorced yourself from??? See for me, I never wanted the divorce. I will say she is so much more open since she started questioning things withthe other man and then more so since she dumped him!!!

Frank