Your situation reminds me of Wes' (Just Me's). Look where he is today. I think a big reason he is where he is is because he constantly did sweet things for her. Everyone told him he was pursuing too much, but I think it made her love him again. After he set up a loving relationship between the two of them, he layed down boundaries. All this combined got him where he is today.
Is this how you see it Wes? I know that it seems that when you gave up, she came back. However, I don't think it would have happened if you hadn't done all the previous things you did. What do you think, Wes?
