I think you are reading too much into this. Is she still with OM? If she isn't, what happened to end it? I don't she is referring to the movie because she is gay. I think it is probably referring to OM if anything. These walk-aways are whack jobs. Who cares what she is referring to? Their thinking isn't worth a minute of your time to fret over. They live in fantasy land and can be so selfish. If there is a chance she is thinking she is gay because of the movie, it is just another example of her living in fantasy land. You know, I really hate Hollywood sometimes. I haven't seen Brokeback mountain so I can't really comment on that show. I do remember when Alley McBeal kissed a women on her show. I remember thinking, "what is up with this world. Hollywood glamorizes this stuff, you are going to have some young girl watch this and think this sort of stuff is cool." Hollywood drives me crazy.

My point--let it go.