Ok Just_Me and others. Here's a twist. I was dropping off the kids tonight and my ex had watched Pride and Prejudice while we were gone. She tells me that it is one of those girlie movies and that there are some movies that she just has to watch alone. One suc one was Brokeback Mountain; but she actually went to the movie with her sister and she stated that she was surprised that she and her sister cried. Then she makes the following statement: "I just find alot that I can relate my life to in the movie"...Now what the hell does that mean??? Before anyone goes off on the gay theme, I have asked many times beforethe movie even came out if she was a lesbian or bi. She always said no. Also, she had the affair with the OM. So, is the relation that she wanted OM; but could never have him. Just like in the movie or am I reading too much into this??? This has me really confused, as I never want to be second fiddle with her.
She still says she wants to go out to do something in a couple of weeks whn she can ask for time off and get her arents to watch the kids; but I wonder why, based on her comment above???
She and I are driving over an hour for a doctors appointment for our youngest son. I am not sure if I should just keep silent and see what she talks about; but I am not good at not talking. Well, by the time I see a reply to this, it will already have occurred; but I would like peoples viewpoints if they have them.
I find all of this so confusing. I mean is there something that she is keeping inthat will prevent us from ever fixing it. OR if we did fix it, would it be real? In otherwords, what if I am second choice and she settles or if she is gay and won't say so and settles. I don't want to find out later; but I am not ready to ask such a tough question at this stage when I have invested time into getting this far.
