Just wondering when it gets to the point where you might need to lay it on the line? What I mean is that while she and I go to the gym and swim together, plan to play racquetball, grab lunch, maybe and occasional quick dinner, etc. I am lost as to why she would do this unless she really wants to be with me or that she is using me? I know that the point is to have her feel comfortable around me and see me for who I am and hope that in the end she likes that and tries to work on things; but she is not that type of personality. I know that right now is not the time to ask, as I believe she is still sorting her self out; but doesn't there come a point in time where the guessing needs to stop? In otherwords, I know I wouldn't be doing stuff with her if I didn't care for her and want to be with her and work things out. I know it is a chance I have to take; but I hope I am not doing stuff with her just because she has no other options right now.
Yes, I do go out on a date if the opportunity arises, which is not often enough and also hang with friends and try and keep busy; but I hate this wondering game I have going on. But like I said, I know it is too soon to ask her right now.
