Well, just had lunch with my X and S6. I had mentioned it to her the other day and she made it like she wasn't sure whether anything else was going on. So, I left it up to her to call and she did. We met and she has to work tonight, so she wasn't going to have a glass of wine; but in the end did!!! lol
Another weird thing that happened, was that when she called to confirm we were meeting for lunch, she said you'll never guess who I just saw face to face in the mall. I said the OM??? She said no, his wife. Neithr said a word and my X said if she wants to be like that fine. I warned her what her husband was like. I then thought, hey, you got involved with hime, why shouldn't she be angry. I mean does she think that just because the woman did not believe her that, at the time, it was okay to get involved??? Well, I told her let's drop that discussion and meet for lunch.
Like I said we had a good time and just talked about the kids and stuff. I told her that I hoped her work tonight goes better than Wednesday. (I was sincere that I hope it goes well; but there was also a part of me trying to make her feel good and maybe show her that things are different) She said I hope so too, as far as work.
Well, that's it for her and I today. In a couple of hours my stepson and I go workout and then it's figure out what to do tonight, by myself :-( lol
Then tomorrow, 2 of our sons are involved in basketball, so we will both be there and I am bringing the coffee. She also has pictures of my stepson, that we are splitting the cost on and then I can use her discount card when I get a picture of myself and the 4 kids. (Wish she was in it too; but that's not the way it is right now)
Big week next week. Once her schedule is out, we will figure out our swimming schedule and then as I previously said she and I have to drive an hour with our youngest for a doctors appointment. Should be an interesting week.
Just, if you're reading this, I am trying to be easy going and am doing my own things; but I still enjoy that she and I get together. I only hope that it will bear fruit in the end. IF not, I will be bummed; but I guess I can look myself in the mirror and know I tried everything!!!
