Things sound fine. You are doing well. Just be patient with her...it's about her finding out what her life is going to be. You're doing fine on the friendship front and hopefully you are able to talk like friends do. Are you listening enough? Remember...listen, listen, listen.
Quote: Hey Just or anyone else who cares to comment from experience. Is it possible that she is still working through her issues and her strive for independence and that is why she is not coming back. Why is it that she still does stuffwith me? I wish I understood. To me, I would think that if you divorced someone, that is the last person you would want to be around??? Am I incorrect in this thinking??? She even leaves the possibility of dinner open, etc???
Don't even bother trying to analyze this. I do believe that she's working through whatever it is she needs to work through. All you can do is give it time. She does like spending time with you, otherwise she wouldn't bother. Just accept what you have for now and wait for her to initiate (meaning...let her do the invites, etc) if she is going to.
I know it's hard, but you are doing fine.
Me
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
