I hear what you are saying; but that still doesn't explain why she at times wants to do these things. I mean I can't just be there whenever; but it is hard; because we are connected by our children and my stepson.
I don't know that I will totally cut off stuff with her. I have backed off a bit and the only reason we have been together lately is because she had asked me if I could install those cable lines a few weeks ago and I told her I would. The other is that she asked me if I could pickup my son from school. I plan on going to see Curious George with him.
BTW, I am communicating with this woman and I might get together for coffee with her if we can set a time. So, I may be wanting to see it work; but I am also and haven't been standing still either.