I agree about the cycle thing. I guess I can see if when I leave tonight, if I can just say sorry. I don't want to be a pushover; but I do regret that she was hurt by that and that is not who I am. That was said during a time where she was angry at me too!!!
I wish she could like me just push aside some of the things from the past and see that I have worked alot on treatingthings differently. I will still make mistakes; but if she only looked at some of the positives, then she might realize it is worth saving. But, that is something she has to want and so far she isn't willing to let that guard down enough. I mean she also needs to realize that she isn't perfect either.
I honestly believe that we and alot of others end up divorced for bad reasons. If people only took the time to talk and to give each other a chance and truly listen to the other, then we wouldn't be divorced.
