I couldn't edit the last post; but I do want to say that I do try and take what NY said in a previous post and enjoy the moment with her and the kids and let it go from there; but man when you want more, it is hard after you leave them. You do other stuff; but you just look forward to the next meeting. That is where Iam at now and I start to wonder when it will all end or come crashing down. I mean I don't want to give up; but I thought there would be a bit more movement by now....I guess I am impatient. From the outside, this is probably a short amount of time correct?