Her parents might go with her and maybe her sister. She told me that she wasn't sure how awkward it would be for them. I asked her well how about you do you want to meet up or not??? She said it was fine... Again it seems to be more about how her parents will feel??? Isn't this about us and not them???
I'm missing something here: she said it was fine with her, so how is this about how her parents may feel? How her parents may feel is their problem, not yours. She expresses that they may feel awkward (and they may or may not, but again, that would be their problem and not for someone else to assume), but it's not stopping her, or is it?
but like I said above, the GAL stuff falls apart.
It seems that way, but each GAL episode has no knowledge of the other, so it's not like they're in cahoots to defeat you, so don't be defeated. maybe you oughtta try obtaining tickets earlier next time? Find something else to do for right now.
I know I try to do other stuff; but it is hard when it never seems to pan out.
Oh but think of the lessons you're learning in coping with life's disappointments. Some people pay therapists thousands of dollars over years to get that kind of education that you're getting firsthand for free.
But seriously, T, focus on positives, not the negatives. Focusing on the negatives magnifies them. Also, as I mentioned above, one event is not connected to the other, so it "seems" to never pan out, but nothing's ordained that way in reality. It could just be a matter of trying more stuff to do, or broadening your horizons some, or having a better plan in getting these things nailed down rather than waiting to the last minute.
