Latest update. X and I met at the YMCA to swim laps and then we went into the hot tub for about 10 minutes. I asked her if she would like to meet twice a week to swim and she said she would. I guess that's a good thing; but it would be nice to know if this was all because she is thinking about it again. I mean we seem to enjoy each others company and things are better. I just wonder what is going through her head. I mean she agrees to the swimming and getting dinner once in awhile when she is not working. I just wonder if when she starts to work whther the new people she meets will cause this to fizzle. I hope not and I do continue to do things on my own and with friends; but it would be nice for us to get a chance again. I guess I look and say if it was me on her side, I would not be doing these things with my X if I didn't want to...
Am I way off base on that thought??? I know that because she does this doesn't mean she wants to get back; but I would think it is much more possible being that she is meeting me and doing things with me. My hardest part is to not push at her; but still maintain contact; because she will most likely be working when I get and drop off the kids.
