I know that noone has the answers to this but her; but I guess I could use some more of your insight into your sitch and how it compares to mine. ARe they similar or does mine seem more gone than yours was? I mean, I have been separated since July of 2004 and divorced since July 2006?
I really would love to have her come to the table; but how long becomes too long? I mean, she has a friend whose parents were apart for 15yrs and remarried 7yrs ago. I have another who divorced and one year after the divorce they remarried and have been together for 10yrs? I have people who never fixed it either. Believe me, I am not going to wait 15yrs!!! lol But I am getting to the point where I still wnat to fix it; but also don't want to be a fool or stupid about it.