very interesting...how far along in the seperation or D were you when you gave that to her? Was the A not the reason for the seperation? Or did you just not know at the time?

I really like the idea, but I don't know if it is too soon in my sitch...I just filed on Friday and I think some tempers need to cool (hers) for her to be receptive.

Are you in the process of D or just seperated heading that direction?