It was an idea concoted by my buddy and I. We knew she was or had had an affair and the point behind it was that to get her to feel comfortable in talking. I didn't know at the time, that she would end up spilling so much..it jsut all happened at the same time she needed to talk.
Basically, it was a piece of paper that I ended up laminating like an ID or membership card. It said something like:
Immunity Card for ------ -----
This entitles the bearer of this card to speak freely about anything that is on their mind without fear of judgment. We will just listen.
on the back:
Our motto:
We all make mistakes. Noone is perfect. It is when we learn to forgive ourselves that we find happiness.
This was kind of a lighthearted attempt to get her to talkand feel comfortable. IT worked because she really did need to talk freely, unbeknownst to me. I will sy this...I don't knw if we will ever work this out; but if we do, I think that will be a big factor in her mind; because she has mentioned the card a few times.
I continue to pray that she eventually comes around or I learn to let go.
