Thanks for your input once again. I guess I am just looking for some support. Also, from those who have been there, whether her actions right now say to give up. That is all. I mean I don't want to just wait on her to come around; but I want to know if what I am getting from her right now is normal for those who actually have worked things out; because I can see that such behavior would occur from those who don't want to work things out. However, as never having experienced this before, I don't want to read it the wrong way and totally give up if this is a phase that they have to go through. I know in the end it may never be; but I would hate to walk away totally and find out that this wasn't necessarily the end. But in the same vein I don't want to linger on hope forever...
Like I said, I just want to know if ohters who have ended up being successful went through this same crap or if my sitch is not anywhere close and that I am in a no win situation.
BTW, VINCES, if you truly want to see if it can be fixed, then I advise you stay here. Yes, alot of activity is slow; but those who do post usually have some good advice. I know that at least my X finally admitted that she was having an affair with OM and then supposedly ended it about 1-1/2 weeks ago.
