Most definitely. He will see thise, and the phone records, and my marital counselor will be more than happy to inform him of the affair. To be honest, however, up until this point, I never REALLY wanted the divorce. I was only going along with it (i.e. filing myself) because I feel that I have to protect myself, financially, and other ways. Now, after all she has done (lying to the OM, me, my family, her family...the list goes on) I really feel that I want the divorce. It isn't like she made the mistake, and apologized, she was unrepentant. She does not act, or even look like the same woman. She looks like hell. She's down to about 95 lbs, she had racoon eyes, her skin is pallid. She looks awful, but won't admit that she has done anything wrong.
Look, I may not be perfect, but I was a good husband, there is no doubt about that. She was a god wife for the most part too. She was young and inexperienced, or so I thought. She knew exactly how to manipulate me and how to skim the money. She was/is an excellent liar, and excells at hiding the truth. Then, she tells her OM that I irritate him, and he calls up and tries to threaten me in a round about sort of way. I had to inform him that it is not harassment if the complainant is the one amking the calls.
Anyway, maybe this is the alien in her talking. Maybe she's going through a "phase". I just can't believe the things she has done, and is continuing to do. I am not going to lovingly distance myself from her, I am going to get the hell as far away as possible before she starts dong stupid destructive things to me.
By the way, It may just be a South American thing, but all her friends and family (all females) that live here in the US have done the exact same thing to their spouses.
I feel like an idiot. She used to tell me how disgusted she was with people that did that, now she's doing it. I should have seen the warning signs.
