Thanks guys. I appreciate the support. I just don't know what to say or do. I have the strong feeling that it is over, and nothing can be done. I wish it were otherwise, but it is not. If she told me that she was totally in love with the guy it would be one thing. Then I know that this situation was like everyone else's. Then I would know that there was some hope. But it isn't. She doesn't love him at all. She just wants to be away from me. Her reasons change for why almost every day. I am really begining to think that it really was for the green card and the money. It looks like she has skimmed quite a bit off the top. See, I helped her get a job with the bank. She pretty mych knows all the ins and outs of this. Not only that, but whenever I attempted to take an interest in our finances, She would get offended. She was normally the one that was in charge of all that stuff, and she has a brilliant financial mind. I let her take care of it all. In retrospect, I see that it was a mistake.
When she described this OM to me, she described a carbon copy of me. All his likes, dislikes, ambitions. Hell, it could have been me. All the things he has already done for her, I did a long time ago. She even sneered when she told me that he wanted to learn Spanish. I learned Spanish...in two months...just to go out with her! I knew two words of Spanish when we met. I had never taken a single class in it. I had to learn it by listening to her and her friends talk. But I didn't mind, because I thought she was such a special girl. Guess I was wrong.
Thanks fro writing guys. It is good to hear others' opinions on the matter. It makes me feel a bit better.
