Hey I feel for you. I am in a similiar situation. I am a police officer and have the same concerns as you do. My wife is acting irrationally. One step further my wife is a police officer as well and is having an affair with a coworker. (A love triangle between 3 cops) They are on the same shift and work the same days and work for the same departmemt, I work in for a neighboring department. (What are they thinking, what a nightmare!) Anyways I agree with what was said eariler you need to see a lawyer just to protect yourself. I did a couple of weeks ago but have not acted on it as of yet. I DO NOT WANT TO BE DIVORCED! By going to the lawyer you have documentation of what has been going on. You know as well as I do that documentation is the name of the game. I wish I had more advice to give you but like I said we are in exactly the same boat. If by some chance I notice a change in my wife from one of the DB principles, I will let you know. Be safe out there.
