That is what I was saying before. I have tried to DB, but it hadn't been working. Nothing I tried worked...not even not trying. This happened so suddenly. She has burned bridges. Wait...that's not right...she has blown the bridges up. They are gone. I have always wondered how people can date or marry someone when their family tells them that the person is bad. I mean, I see it all the time in my job. Now, my family is telling me that she is a bad person, and I would be a fool to take her back. I don't see this as even an option, because she even told me that she'd never come back because she'd made too many mistakes. She even told me that she didn't love the OM...he was just different.
Believe me, I would love to be able to say that I'll wait, and DB, and take her back. The problem is this, she's had two affairs. I'm not totally convinced that she didn't marry me just for the immigration status. The problem is this: I still love her. Actually, I still love the person I thought she was.
I need some advice. It doesn't matter if this is confusing to other DB'ers. Write. I need something because I am so very lost.
