I am so confused. She has been screwing around on me. She has betrayed me, and my trust in her. Yet, I still want her back. Is that wrong?
Not at all. It is perfectly natural. Thing is that since you are here, your love for your W and your desire to try whatever you can to make it work outweighs your outrage/pain/sadness/frustration you feel over what she's done. As we all say at one time or another, only YOU can decide when enough is enough. I am having trouble commenting on your sitch, as I guess are others, because your W seems VERY extreme to me. She is acting like someone who is not confused at all and is doing some very damaging things. In the face of that, I don't know how I would DB. You sound like you've taken the steps to protect yourself financially, have you talked to a lawyer? If not, maybe it's time to do that so you can begin to protect yourself legally. You may still have a chance to save your M but you really need to take care of yourself until she calms down a bit.
