I do not know what to say at this point. Things have gone from bad to worse. She is continuing to say that she wants the divorce. That much has not changed. We were supposed to divide the money in the accounts we had together down the middle. However, before she left she took over 11,000.00 from the accounts. She was in the process of taking the rest when I found out what was going on. I froze the accounts, then closed them and withdrew the rest money. In all, she took around 12,000.00. I was able to salvage some of it, but I still had outstanding checks written from that account that needed to clear before I could close it. I left just enough money to cover all the checks. I found out tonight that she had locked me out of the account from online by changing all the passwords and access ID's. I was able to circumvent all this by calling the 24 hour thingy. She's been taking all the money from that last account too. I went into damage control mode and began calling the companies that the checks were written to. I explained everything and had them not cash the checks so I could send them new ones. Hopefully I can get to the bank before she does and close the account out.
Also, I am frightened that she may accuse me of domestic violence. Now, I have NEVER laid an unkind hand on her. However, I have no idea what kind of BS this OM is feeding her. SHe may try to get vindictive and evil and accuse me of it. Without any visible sign of injury, it would be difficult and she would have to file the case through the state's attorney's office. The police couldn't do anything if it is just a he said she said thing, but I would be accused of it. That would definitely cost me my job. I am a police officer, and that kind of accusation is career ending.
What's up folks? I'm not a bad person. I have served my country in the military, and my community as a police officer. I always try to do the right thing, and I always treated her with respect and dignity.
